by chris thackston




If you’ve been told you have two to four weeks to live, what would do you do?
My cousin told her daughter she wanted a lemon pie
so her whole family could eat together one more time.
What would you do?
I’d write all those letters I’ve put off.
I’d call my family and tell them I love them.
I’d sit outside, or watch the glories of spring through a window.
I’d listen to the birds chirp and the leaves rustle.
I’d bring back all the good memories and hold them close.
I’d banish every bad memory I have.
And I hope I’d think of the adventure I am heading toward.
No one knows what death is like. Soon I’d know.
– Jenny Munro
(Written shortly after my cousin was given a time limit for her life)
I am — a daughter, a sister, an aunt, a granddaughter, a niece, a cousin.
I am — a woman, a dreamer, an explorer, a writer, a traveler, a doer.
I am … one of a kind, one of many, a bit of star dust, a moment in time, a particle in the universe.
I am … an artist, an excavator, a beam of light, an idea, a committee member.
I am … a student, a walker, a reader, a homeowner, a graduate (of many schools and lessons).
I am …. a worker, a flower lover, a photographer, a poet, a reporter, a wordsmith.
I am … a collector of teapots, family letters, books, salt and pepper shakers and carved eggs.
I am … a cleaner, a creator, a decorator, a lover of all, a swimmer in oceans, lakes, rivers and words.
I am … a volunteer, a friend, a caretaker, a gift-giver, a picker up of the pieces.
I am … a mover, a shaker, an experimenter, a collector of frogs, a devotee of many things old and a some things new.
I am … a retiree, a reacher for new experiences, a tea drinker, a dieter, a cook.
I am — a nurturer without children, an animal lover without pets, a guardian without weapons.
I am … one with the world, a seer of visions, a teller of tales, a knitter of memories, a repository of hopes.
I am … ME.
– Jenny Munro
(I was trying to write a personal biography and getting nowhere. So I decided to try this.)

Red and yellow, green and blue, pink and white – the balloons float up to Heaven
Through rain and sunshine, clouds and wind.
They begin their journeys in Florida and Rhode Island, South Carolina and Massachusetts, even Washington, D.C. But they all end in Heaven with Mark.
Those bits of rubber, air and color each honor the youngster, showing him he had family he’d never met – sisters, aunts and uncles, cousins, even his mother (whom of course he knew) and a stepfather.
A person’s life and worth is not measured in years but in love.
Mark is rich in that.
– Jenny Munro
They look down their noses and ask if I will
sit on the committee,
make a presentation,
take a job with the corporation.
And I want to know—
do I have to wear pantyhose?
They ask if I will teach a class,
speak to the congregation,
accept a most officious task,
and sit on yet another committee.
And I want to know—
do I have to wear pantyhose?
They ask if I will host the symposium,
teach the workshop,
sing for disadvantaged tots,
and sit on yet another committee.
And I want to know—
do I have to wear pantyhose?
They ask if I will witness the execution,
provide them with locution,
marry the candlestick maker in the finest clothes,
listen while the many unburden their woes.
And I want to know—
do I have to wear pantyhose?
Oh, give me your bare legged,
your grandmother in tennis shoes,
your gardener in old boots
your hikers
your wanderers
your dreamers
the barefooted—
grass and chicken shit
between their toes—
but do not,
oh, do not
give me pantyhose!
The wind howls in my ears
As “The Best of Times” plays in my tunes
Memories flooding with the beat
And the rhythm of the song.
Step by step by step,
The cadence of the song
Matches the beat of my run.
Images from a distant past
Replayed with every step,
A spark of joy with every verse
Of this familiar song.
“The best of Times” always bring memories
Of friends in times long gone
And friendships that remain
Preserved through time and space.
“The best of Times” brings back memories
But the best has not yet come.
We set out to find our roots
Searching for the missing pieces
of a puzzle started long ago…
Who has the answers?
The journey has just begun!